We have entered a new phase of parenthood. Ellie took me by surprise when I picked her up from school on Friday.
The story starts on Thursday morning. Ellie asked if she could wear her sparkly earrings to school. I told her "no". Two reasons for my "no". One is that she is only supposed to wear jewelry in "moderation" for her school's dress code policy. Two is that these are clip on earrings that are quite tight on her ears and cause her ears to turn red and eventually hurt her.
I didn't think another thing of it, until I picked her up from school on Friday. As I was walking with her down the hallway to get her backpack, I noticed she had her sparkly earrings on. I immediately stopped and while asking her why she had the earrings on was trying to put together what was going on. She quickly covered her ears and looked like she was "caught".
Turns out that Ellie Catherine decided that she wasn't going to obey her mom and hid her earrings in her backpack on Thursday morning, wore them to school on Thursday and removed them before getting picked up by Dad. Same thing happened on Friday, except for the remembering to remove them part.
I was completely shocked that my little girl premeditated this whole thing. She has lost all of her jewelry for a week. This punishment caused tears at first, but might not be quite tough enough for the crime. Hopefully, the punishment along with our discussion about the incident is enough.